Separate server wait time from page rendering
Time to first byte, or TTFB, shows how long you wait for the response to start. It can include network steps, redirects and server processing. It's not the same as the moment the user sees the main content. The difference is explained in the web.dev documentation on TTFB.
Take one slow URL and load it several times. Note the first and repeat loads, the device, the network and whether you were logged in. A single fast test doesn't disprove a visitor's complaint if the problem only happens now and then.

The server takes too long: where to look
When the delay happens before the HTML arrives, check the load, database queries, external calls and how the cache works. For example, a page may be waiting on another service even though its own design has almost no graphics. Shrinking an image won't do much for that main pause. If you need a custom configuration, that's already a job for server solutions.
Don't install several speed-up plugins at once. First find out which layer already caches the page, when it's cleared and whether it works for a regular visitor. Stacking several mechanisms can make the cause harder to find and serve outdated forms or prices.
The HTML arrives fast, but the page isn't ready
Here you check the size and order of resources: the main image, fonts, styles, scripts and external widgets. Pay special attention to the first screen. Its main image shouldn't be lazy-loaded the way you would an illustration at the end of a long article.
Ask practical questions about every extra widget. Does it need to be on every page? Can it load after the user interacts? Does the main lead form still work if the external service is temporarily down? This cuts not only page weight but also the number of dependencies.

Test speed and functionality together
Caching must never show another visitor personal data, an old cart state or an expired form security token. After optimizing, test submitting a lead, the error message, a double click and opening the page while logged out.
For WordPress, the official optimization guide covers different levels of work, including hosting and caching. Which level to work on should be based on measurements. Replacing the whole CMS without a diagnosis can simply move the same problem into a different system.
When it makes sense to change hosting
The decision (VPS or shared hosting) is justified if your current resources or limits don't meet your needs and measurements confirm it. Ask to see how the site behaves under normal load and which resources exactly are running out. A pricier plan name by itself is no proof that things will get faster.
Start with a technical website check that separates the causes. If the bottleneck really is the infrastructure, you can choose website hosting with the right specs. Compare before and after on the same pages and under similar conditions.

